Our goal is long-term stability and it most definitely works. Thanks to intensive case management which entails a strong combination of: conversation, empowerment, cheerleading, and accountability, our clients are set on a path where they can care for themselves and their families – for the long haul. We love to share these success stories which are really too numerous to mention, but here are just a few:
Renny and Christy
After being married for more than 20 years, Renny’s husband left her and their special needs daughter, Christy. Renny and Christy stayed in their home, but when her husband stopped paying the mortgage, the house went into foreclosure and they had to leave. With nowhere to go, a member of the health club where Renny works suggested that she call Family Promise of Hunterdon County. After being in our shelter for about four months they found an apartment in a beautiful open area that they both absolutely love. Renny works full-time in the housekeeping department at the health club but also takes on other work such as ironing and cleaning. Christy goes to work every day at the Center for Educational Advancement (CEA) doing piecework. Renny is a very determined woman; with the help of a volunteer tutor recruited by Family Promise of Hunterdon County, she passed her citizenship test. Renny became a proud United States citizen in May.
This family is remarkable and we are so proud to know them!
Dana and Anthony
Dana’s life has been challenging from the beginning. Born to a drug-addicted, alcoholic mother, her life started out rough. As she grew older, Dana suffered years of physical and mental abuse. In her words, “Statistics show that I should be an addict, a prostitute or suicidal.” Dana is none of those.
Referred to Family Promise of Hunterdon County through a neighbor, Dana was reluctant to go into a shelter and receive help but she knew she had to make a change. She felt very guilty about what she considered “taking a handout.” Dana had no motivation or ambition at first and a difficult time showing affection. But she responded to the case management program of goal setting and budgeting. In fact, she still uses the budget worksheets today!
Dana has been described as “scrappy” in her ability to find work and housing since she left the shelter but she remains grateful for the help that she occasionally gets from Family Promise. Four years ago, Dana’s life changed forever when she was blessed with a beautiful boy, Anthony. Dana credits her own painful childhood as the reason that she is such a dedicated and loving mother. Dana has been stable and independent for almost 10 years now and is involved with her community as a volunteer. She is an incredible mother and very grateful to have her bright, handsome boy. We’re so proud of her and we love when she brings Anthony in for a visit. Our goal is long-term stability – and it works!
Angel, Jennifer, and Elizabeth
Here is an incredible story of turnaround; a turnaround that happens when a family who is determined to stay together is given the opportunity to do just that. The couple, Angel and Jennifer, was living in their car for more than a year while their baby, Elizabeth, was being cared for by a family member. They pursued many shelter options but in every case, they would have been separated, with Angel in a men’s shelter and Jennifer and the baby in a women’s shelter. The exception was Family Promise of Hunterdon County. The whole family was offered a spot in our shelter program and gladly accepted. They responded to intensive case management with incredible commitment. Within weeks, both parents got jobs and not long after that, they exited the shelter into a place that they can afford because they are both working. This is a place they can now call “home.” The couple is extremely grateful to the volunteers and staff of Family Promise of Hunterdon. Angel and Jennifer want everyone to know that “God is good and you can always pray for a better day. We’re so grateful and we know that when you have a roof over your head and your family is together, you don’t have to worry about little things. We still try to stay strong for Elizabeth because we know that it’s not about us, it’s about her.”
“The volunteers stayed by me, helping me, supporting me and listening to me. These people treat you like you’re a family, like you’re an equal. They make you feel good about yourself and they make it feel like home. These are lifetime relationships.”
Many will remember Hope Johnson and her gorgeous, curly-haired daughter, Olivia. Hope remembers being so impressed that the Family Promise of Hunterdon program was so “hands on” with staff, volunteers, and guests all included and working together. She feels strongly that Family Promise of Hunterdon changed her life and her family’s future. “I think that they deserve more credit for where I am today.”
Hope has a lot of self-confidence and drive, proven by her ability to work up from Technician to Customer Service and now to a Sales position at Verizon in a short amount of time. She started off working two jobs and the determination to ensure that her daughter did not grow up homeless or living on food stamps. Hope credits her success in the program to her self-confidence and her ability to recognize that, “I have a good personality and a lot of confidence. I wasn’t afraid to tell anyone who I was or what I wanted for my family and that I was willing to do the work because I didn’t want to be there. The only option you have sometimes is to make a change and I did it.”
Hope viewed her time in the shelter simply as “a situation;” a situation that was difficult but made so much easier by the incredible volunteers that she and Olivia met during her time in the shelter. She stays in contact with a lot of them and remains forever grateful for their kindness and for seeing her potential.
Malika and Neveah
“Family Promise ROCKS. You guys are really helpful, and I just love the staff. I had so many debates with myself about leaving because I thought it would be easier. I know now that staying with the program was the right choice and now I’m able to do it on my own and I’m so glad that I did!”
Malika Davis was caught in a downward spiral after losing her job and then her housing and not long after that, her car died. Without housing, work or transportation she sought shelter with her daughter, Neveah, at Family Promise of Hunterdon County. Malika was very honest about how hard it was for her in the shelter program, particularly in the first week. She shared that, “My first week was terrible because I was put in a completely different environment with rules and I felt like I was an adult and wasn’t used to that. I also didn’t have a plan, which made it so hard to deal with everything that I had lost because I couldn’t imagine ever getting back on my feet, I just couldn’t see it happening. As time progressed, I made a plan and saw that I had options which, to be honest, made it easier and harder at the same time.” The combination of excellent case management, support from volunteers, and her personal drive to break the cycle of generational poverty that affected her family led Malika to where she is today, not even one year later! Malika is in our Sustainable Housing program which pays a portion of her rent so that she can work and go to school. She earned a certificate in Phlebotomy in December and is now motivated to stay in school and earn her LPN. Her hard work has not only paid off in her ability to provide for her family, but Malika knows the impact it has on Neveah to see that when it comes to valuing an education, her mom really walks the talk. Malika stresses the value of sticking to a schedule and a plan. She credits that with helping her to do a better job of managing money, saving, and using her paycheck wisely. She knows how important it is to stay on that schedule and make her family the priority because that has led to her success.